Taylor Home Safe

We drove Taylor to the airport Wednesday afternoon. Forecast called for rain. Fortunately, it held off until his plane was in the air. We drove home in VERY HEAVY rain at times. Arne and I compared comments and actions of our delightful ADHD grandson. I had looked up ADHD and he definitely has many, if not most, of the characteristics...always talking, always moving, reminding me he's almost 16, but acting much younger...and that he's "a professional" in whatever...golf, driving, pickleball. I sit on a big ball while on my computer. While Taylor was here, that ball was all over the house, with Taylor rolling on it.

We both have a lot more sympathy for Lisa as this was our first time with just Taylor. I heard "Grandma" at least 50 times. And the questions!! He says he asks questions so he can learn things. OK. But some of the questions...How long does it take a man to get ready? (He thought I took entirely too long getting ready, especially when he was waiting for me to go with him so he could drive the golf cart.) Grandpa, is that a toupée? He gave us many laughs also with his wonderful sense of humor.

Lisa is planning to come out in October so we will see Taylor again then. At least, we can share the load. :-) Tomorrow night the girls come. Kadin is ADD but that's not so bad, since half our family is ADD. The hyperactivity is the killer for old people! Taylor warned me that the girls will be waking us up at 5AM. I said they would not...hope I'm right!

Taylor's Visit

Grandson Taylor, 15, or as he kept reminding me, almost 16, arrived in Orlando July 17. Since his flight didn't arrive until 11:40 PM, I got a room at a hotel near the airport. The next day, Monday,I took him to Kennedy Space Center which we toured for about 5 hours, arriving in The Villages around 6:30.

For the next three days, Taylor went with me to play pickleball. We played singles and he kept commenting on my long reach as not many balls got past me. It took Taylor three days to get used to the humidity as he constantly complained at how hot it was here. Wait a minute...Arizona is hot, isn't it?? Oh, yeah, HUMIDITY! Makes a difference when you're not used to it.

Thursday afternoon, the three of us went to see Transformers 3 in 3D. Taylor loved it, I thought it was OK and Arne thought it's never end.

Taylor brought his golf clubs and we planned to go out each evening after dinner, when golf is free on the executive courses. :-) However, the first three days he was too tired and the next two evenings had thunder storms. I finally took him on Saturday to play one of the Arnold Palmer Championship courses Saturday afternoon. It was hot but clouds help keep it bearable. While Taylor didn't beat me, as he predicted, he did have a great shot out of the sand on the Par 3 #8 and into the hole for Birdie. He was happy!!

Sunday morning Taylor and I left the house at 7:30 AM and headed for Universal Orlando. We spent almost 8 hours riding all kinds of coasters. The last one, Dragon Challenge in Wizarding World of Harry Potter, finished me. I was nauseated as the ride flung us up and around and back and forth. Taylor rode it three more times without me. For the day, I had 13 rides and Taylor 16. Three of those rides were water rides and by the end of the third one, I was COMPLETELY soaked. While I had a bad hair day, I actually stayed quite cool for the remainder of the afternoon.

The Incredible Hulk Coaster

Dragon Challenge
Today, Arne took Taylor to his art class where T behaved like a gentleman. I took him for an hour of pickleball and after dinner, Arne took him golfing. He should sleep well tonight. No special plans for tomorrow except steak for dinner. He flies back to Phoenix Wednesday afternoon. We then have three days to recoup before Kadin and Gracie fly in Saturday night...

Villages Pickleball Report on CBS

I love playing pickleball. There was a segment about pickleball in The Villages on CBS news which you can watch here. When I first started, I took a clinic last Fall from Coach Mo and also played a game with him one morning in May.

Pickleball Report on CBS

Independence Day!

July 5 is not only the anniversary of my father-in-law, Ralph Swensen's 100th birthday but it's an independence day of sorts for Casey Anthony. While I knew they couldn't find her guilty of first degree murder due to the lack of evidence, I never dreamed she would be found not guilty on all counts in the death of her daughter. She was responsible for her daughter at the time she "disappeared" and should be charged with something. While most mothers would have been frantic trying to find their daughter, this mother chose to party. Very sad for little Caylee.



On a happier note, Arne and I went to the Town Square last night for dinner and good music. This picture was taken last year. The two "tall people" on the right were present last night and I had on the same shirt so decided to use the same picture, since we didn't have a camera last night. :-)

My wound is pretty much healed so I started playing pickleball again. Played the last four days. Really enjoy it. I'm hosting Hand and Foot (card game) Thursday which has given me a good reason to finally clean house.

I'm happy to report that Erik is back home even though the fire is still burning on the other side of the mountains. While that's fortunate for Erik, it's not fortunate for the Indians who have sacred ground in that area.


The Villages continues to grow. While this video is a sales video, it gives an overview of The Villages lifestyle and the family who created it.

Anniversary Week

While I had originally planned to play basketball in Houston, I changed my mind because it meant being away from my husband of 48 years. Instead, Arne and I had a wonderful three days in St. Petersburg/Tampa, FL. We drove down Tuesday afternoon and checked into America's Best Inn, only 22 rooms, and very friendly hostess with whom Arne got to practice his German. The inn reminded us of an old European hotel. 5 PM was happy hour and in the morning a substantial Continental breakfast was served.

Tuesday evening, we spent a few hours at The Pier, which is surrounded by Tampa Bay. It was nice to be by the water to watch sailboats and people fishing.

Wednesday morning we went to Sunken Gardens. The Gardens began in 1903, when plumber and avid gardener George Turner Sr. purchased the site, including a shallow lake 10 feet (3.0 m) below sea level, which he drained to form his private "sunken" garden. Over the years, the gardens became the property of St. Petersburg. It was a very serene, tranquil setting with large tropical plants.

In the afternoon, we went to the Salvador Dali Museum. Arne had been to the old one with our kids several years ago. He was somewhat hesitant to go again but I wanted to see it so he tagged along. We spent three hours there and thoroughly enjoyed it. This is a new building, not the one Arne was in previously. We learned much about Dali from the Docent who gave interpretations of many of Dali's paintings. I was surprised to see paintings which were before his surrealist period. Before this visit, I only thought of him as a surrealist artist. He certainly was an interesting character and, I would say, a creative genius.

Wednesday night, Arne and I went to a restaurant over by the Gulf for our anniversary dinner. I had a delicious salmon dinner but Arne's grouper was pretty bland. The waiter removed the charge for the Calamari appetizer to compensate. After dinner, we drove to a spot where we could walk out to the beach and watch the sunset over the Gulf. We didn't realize it initially but we were right by the condos where we had stayed when our niece, Amy, got married. That brought back some happy memories as all three of our children had joined us for that special event.



Thursday we checked out a day earlier than planned. The reason being we had tickets for Cirque that night. While the performance was at St. Pete Times Forum, I didn't realize it was actually 23 miles away, in Tampa. Since those 23 miles were in the direction of home, we decided to drive the remaining 80 miles after Cirque. Checkout was 11, Cirque at 7:30, lots of time to kill. We decided to go to the Museum of Science and Industry in Tampa. We spent 5 hours there with hundreds of children in tour groups. It was very educational and we both learned some new things. We saw "Tornado Alley" in the IMax theatre. This 45 minute movie told about the researchers of VORTEX 2, the most ambitious effort ever made to understand the origins and evolution of tornadoes. They hope the data they collect will make possible earlier warnings of coming tornadoes.

That night, another great performance by Cirque du Soleil. This show titled Alegria (a Spanish word that means happiness, joy and jubilation). While there were many outstanding acts, we had difficulty seeing some of them due to our seats. I ordered our tickets six months ago and paid a premium thinking we'd have the best. While we got to enter through the VIP door, our seats were on the floor, third row. We had to move our heads according to the people in front of us. Very disappointing.

Pain and NO Exercise...Happy Birthday!

Three weeks ago I had surgery on my back near my left shoulder to remove a pre-cancerous growth. The stitches came out the day after we arrived home from Arizona. Two days later I played the best basketball I've played in almost 50 years! Unfortunately, I overdid my shoulder and the wound became infected. After four days of trying to get the doctor to look at it, I finally got in last Thursday. He worked on the area, pressing down hard to force out the poison. Ouch! I had surgery on my right thigh scheduled for Friday. After that surgery, the doctor addressed my shoulder and pressed even harder! I can't believe I didn't cry! It REALLY hurt! Arne had to change the dressing and clean the wound twice a day over the week-end. I went back to the doctor today where a nurse irrigated the site with hydrogen peroxide. The doc gave me a different antibiotic as he didn't think the one he prescribed last Thursday was doing the job. I have to go back Wednesday afternoon for another look see. Meanwhile, no Fitness center, no pickleball, no golf...nothing physical! I'm bummed! The few pounds I lost last month will probably come back double. Then I remind myself that this too shall pass and before I know it, I'll be back in action.

Today was my 69th birthday and I thoroughly enjoyed the day. This morning I got a perm so am now very curly. This afternoon I had a manicure and pedicure. This evening Arne took me to Outback where I enjoyed my usual 6 oz steak with sweet potato and salad. Oh yes, I had a martini before we left and two glass of wine with dinner which along with the chocolate cake when we got home put me at double my calories for the day. But hey, it IS my birthday. As long as I don't make it a habit of eating like this...and someday soon I'll be able to exercise again which really helps with those calories. :-)

Thank you to all who sent birthday wishes through email and Facebook. Thank you for thinking of me!

Our week in Arizona

Arne and I flew to Phoenix last Friday, May 27. Erik and the girls flew in a couple hours later and we had adjoining rooms at Phoenix Mesa Marriott. This location was chosen because it was next to Mesa Convention Center where Lisa and Erik were putting on an education conference May 31 and June 1. As Arne said on our way home from Orlando, "It was a good trip." Time with all of our children and most of the grandchildren, priceless! We pray that in the future Lil E will be able to join us.

We spent lots of time by the pool as Kadin and Gracie still love to swim. A little too much time I'm afraid as all three kids were a little red Saturday night. (By Tuesday, the girls were VERY TAN!) Kadin complained of a tummy ache all afternoon so about 9 PM Arne & Erik went to Walgreens. While they were gone, Kadin vomited all over her bed. In my attempt to carry the duvet into the bathroom, for what purpose I'm not certain, it poured onto the floor making a bigger mess. A gal from the front desk helped me clean it up and then suggested we move to the rooms across the hall. We had to give up our view of the pool and while we could have moved back after the rug was shampooed and room aired out, the girls wanted to stay where we were. Probably a good idea as I noticed that window open for several days.

Kadin is getting so tall and at 10 1/2 can almost see the top of her mother's head. I went shopping with Erik and the girls one morning. Arne decided to stay at the hotel and use the Fitness Center, which I used every morning before the others were awake. We spent over two hours in the girls' favorite store, Justice. Usually high-priced clothing for kids and young adults but for Memorial Day they had 40% off and a clearance rack with another 40% off. Erik gently guided the girls to the clearance rack and they were able to find several outfits for starting school. Kadin picked out the navy and white sweater but otherwise pretty much tries on whatever Erik hands her while Gracie, the fashionista, assembles outfits, in this case four, and then goes to try them on. I bought them each a pair of sunglasses and another item.


Sunday night we went to Peter Piper Pizza where Aaron1 and Ted joined us. Ted is DD, developmentally disabled, and while he's 29, he behaves like a mature 9 year old. We kind of adopted him into our family years ago and he joined us for several holiday gatherings in Terravita. He, Kadin, Gracie and Taylor had a blast seeing who could win the most tickets. I believe it was Taylor. Back at the hotel, Erik was the entertainer, using one of Taylor's prizes as a prop...

Monday afternoon, Arne and I drove to north Scottsdale. We had a nice visit with friends, Trudy in the Boulders, Tim and Marilyn in Terravita. When we got back to Mesa, we went to Lisa's office where they were getting things lined up for the conference. Kadin and Gracie were good helpers.


On Tuesday, while their parents were busy with the conference, I took Taylor, Kadin and Gracie to Jump Street. Last year they spent almost two hours jumping on the trampolines. This year Taylor was only interested in the Dodge Ball pit so guess where the girls also spent their time. They did spend a few minutes in the foam pit. I tried to post a video but kept getting errors so you don't get to see the big foam cubes into which they jumped. :-(

Erik and the girls left early Wednesday morning. I missed sharing a room with them as our room seemed smaller and quieter. We went to the conference and joined in the lunch which was held outside. Aaron entertained.

Wednesday night, Lisa had a meeting, so Arne and I took Nick and both Aarons to the Brazillian restaurant in Scottsdale, Fogo de Chao, where Nick works as a server. Dinner includes your choice of 16 different meats, many varieties of beef. They have Gauchos who bring the meat and you can eat as much as you can hold. I had 2 lamb chops which were wonderfully seasoned and then several cuts of beef. I entered the "meat coma" as the server called it. I just couldn't eat another piece but did manage to eat dessert. Dinner is $50 plus drinks and dessert. $$$$$$ I figured it was going to be about $350 but when our bill came, we had only been charged for three salad bars and the boys' alcoholic drinks. Certainly pays to go with an employee and the best friend of the assistant manager, Aaron2. :-)

Thursday afternoon was our 4:30 flight back to Orlando. Lisa and Taylor took us to the airport and we stopped for lunch at Tempe Marketplace. I'm sorry I didn't get a picture of Lisa that day as she looked more rested and beautiful than the previous days.

Our flight home was uneventful, landing at 11:30 PM. It took a while to get our luggage so was about 1:30 AM when we arrived home. I got to sleep at 2:30 and slept until 9:30! Today, I slept til 8:30. It's never taken me this long to adjust to the new time. I think getting in so late made a difference. Anyway, here we are, back in our cocoon known as The Villages. :-)